MY god, I'm an idiot and didn't even realize there was a same-sex board so I've posted in the regular boards. Which of course was fine, but it's also nice to find this as there are special issues for us like 2 dresses and name changes and traveling to MA!I proposed to my lovely fiancee about 2 weeks ago on a cruise on deck under the stars. I was ring searching for nearly a year and it was SO hard keeping it a secret!I'm nervous because we will mostly likely be doing a budget wedding in Cape Cod and probably will not be able to go prior to the wedding. All of the vendors will have to be based off of good reviews. Also seems a bit difficult to find a vendor specializing in vegetarian food (I want this for around half the food).Both my partner and I came out to our extended families during the past two weeks. We were so worried, but every single person we told at the very least said congratulations! I am so blessed as my grandparents are in their mid to late 80s. Kudos to our families!