Hey boardies! Just wanted to get something off my chest and knew you'd all understand.
We're 207 days away from our wedding date. We just completed a big move (out on our own with no roommates), and today we got some news I had been dreading... my fiance's work refuses to grant him the time off for our wedding in advance.
I know it probably seems silly to be stressed about it this far in advance and things may work out before October, but right now I could just scream. Maybe it's the stress of moving and I'm overly emotional, but I really want to sit down on my kitchen floor, have a big glass of wine, and cry.
As it stands right now, we won't really know for sure if Kevin can get the time off until 30 to 60 days from the date. For an out of state wedding. I feel like all our planning has been a total waste. Also, for the record, this is a call center job. it's not like the man is a surgeon or something that lives depend on. Sadly, we don't have the luxury financially of just saying "Well, he won't be there because he's getting married, and the company can go to hell".
Like I said, I mostly just want to vent, but if anyone wants to sympathize, vent with me, cheer me up, or just join me on the kitchen floor for that wine, that'd be great...