So to make a long story short, my fiance's mom has backed out of hosting our wedding shower, a WEEK before the shower. It was a huge blow up between Holli and her mom, and subsequently, we found out that she didn't support our marriage. I think we could deal with this better if she was against the "gay" part of this situation, but she simply disagrees with marriage in general and has done this to all of the kids in the family. Now her mom is not even attending the wedding. She is so manipulative and controlling that her father, and brothers will not be coming either, as not to upset her.
I'm at a loss.
We are 3 weeks away from the wedding. And we didn't get to have a shower, which we were excited about. (not really for presents, but for our families meeting and the cake and fun) And now Holli doesn't get to have her mother at her wedding. My family has been incredible to her, and I know it means the world to her. But there's nothing that can replace her mother's presence. Is there ANYTHING i can do to make up for her not being there?? And what do we do about the mother and father dances??? I can't dance with my mother and father, knowing she doesn't have that. I don't know what I should let go of to make sure she feels like the bride she should on our wedding day....