My fiancé and I are struggling with this question. We live in Michigan which does not recognize same sex marriage, but we are having a destination wedding in order to be able to invite only the people who are supportive of us, therefore it will be a small group of 10. We keep going back and forth on whether to have a ceremony somewhere warm and fun, like the Florida keys, where it won't be legal, or have it somewhere like DC. She is in the mindset to make it more like a vacation for our guests and a thank you to them, I really feel like if we are going to have a wedding we should make it legal since we can.
The other question we have been wondering is what happens when it does become legal in our state, will we have to get a new marriage certificate or will ours carry over?