Do we have to address the envelopes formally? I don't want to do the Mr and Mrs. thing. We are pretty laid back people and all of our guests know that. In addition, I'm not writing the addresses our or having it done like the "Hetro" board said I had to. This is my wedding and I'm going some things how I want! I never follow all the rules anyways. I bought clear labels and choosing a pretty front! PRINTING!!!!!