So, I recently got engaged on 5/13/12. We had been together off and on for the past couple of years. I decided that I needed to take a break after the painful death of my mother. I'm all alone in planning this without my mother and I'm really just stuck on where to start in planning my wedding. I know that GA is not a lesbian friendly state to get married in and at one point I was thinking about having a DW. I soon found out that only a few of my family members could attend the wedding. I'm reaching out to see if there are any suggestions that could help us get started on things to do. We have done the small things like choose the colors, pick the date, set a budget(that keeps changing), and finally we've chosen the bridal party. I want something nice, but it doesn't necessarily have to be a big wedding. Since my mother will only be present in spirit; a DW with only 10ppl would be ok. I was thinking about having the wedding and then maybe a reception when I return home. Her family doesn't really accept her(besides the small selected few) so my family is truly her family. I'm just looking for a few good idea's. Maybe a planner, we need to take engagement pictures. I just really don't want to deal with anyone that doesn't respect us and our decision to marry, but are completely willing to take our money. That doesn't fly with me. HELP IF YOU CAN PLZ!!!!!