Hello, My partner and I are planning a Fall 2012 wedding now that we can marry in NY. Because of NY just legalizing same sex marriage there isn't alot of information (that I could find) on what venue/companies are "gay friendly". My partner think I am just worrying too much and "Our money is just as green as anyone elses". Which might be the case but taking our money and helping us make this one of the best days of our lives could be two different things. Has anyone else had this issue? Do you recommend coming out and asking if someone would have an "issue"?
We are in Western NY, not the most liberal part of the state.