Hi I have a question that I really hope is not offensive so sorry in advance if it is.
Ok, so my FI and I (heterosexual wedding) are not having a typical wedding party. Instead, I'm having my brother stand with me and he's having his sister stand with him. His sister is gay and hasn't worn a dress in years. So we're going to put together an outfit like a blouse in our wedding color with slacks to match my brothers suit.
My question is regarding the flowers. Would getting her a bouquet sound like a bad idea? I feel like a boutinerre is insulting. What about a corsage? Or no flowers at all?
If you are a lesbian and were in the same situation which would you prefer? Or would you care?
"Love is like a butterfly; It goes where it pleases and pleases where it goes"
David & Roxy
March 2, 2013