So, im wondering how to get your fiancee to do the things that she says shes going to do? its weeks before the wedding, and so much stuff needs to get done that i feel like im getting overloaded with all the things she's supposed to do but hasnt....help? my coordinator isnt doing anything (hasnt even called!) and my family, because of the nature of this wedding (my fiancee's a girl) have left me to my own devices. most of them arent coming at all. does anyone have any advice for me?