Hey Everyone,
My name is Val, and I have been lurking on these boards for the better part of a year now. I have gained so much knowledge just by reading everybody's advice and suggestions - but now I have decided it is time to stop lurking and start asking!
To make a long story short (okay - as short as it can be), we are having an open bar at our reception, but there are a few guests my FI and I are concerned about. Our biggest worry is concerning my FMIL. She has a history of getting very drunk and making big scenes (at every event includng baby showers, christenings, and birthday parties for our 2 young children). Basically, I am wondering what the most appropriate way to handle this situation would be. We have mentioned it to her several times over the last year every now and then (just in regular conversation - not a big sit down discussion), but I don't know if we should do more preemptively, or wait until a situation arises at the reception and deal with it then. If an issue does come up at the reception, we are also unsure of the right way to handle it.
So basically I am open to any and all suggestions (or advice) anyone can offer me on what we could be doing that may relieve some of the stress this has been causing us.
TIA,
Val.