I just have a couple of questions on invite etiquette. It's not so much for the wedding as it is for the batchlorette.
I have been invited to 2 different batchlorette's where was I was not invited to the wedding. Here are my questions in regards to this:
`Do you ever invite people to the batchlorette that you dont invite to the wedding?
`Should I invite these girls to my batchlorette, I dont plan on inviting them to the wedding.
Also, I was talking to a friend and we were talking about how they asked for money instead of gifts for her wedding. I asked her how on earth she did that and she told me that you just write "Presentation Only" on the invitation.
Now, I have been to a wedding where they wrote on the invite to give money, not gifts, and honestly that is the only thing I remeber about the wedding is that we gave them cash because that's what the invite said. It's cruddy that it's all I remember, but i do because the wedding was in the legion hall and the food was scarce and not very good. I felt awkward shelling out a couple hundred dollars for them when I know they didnt even spend an quarter of that on my being there.