Heya everyone!
My fiance and I started reading "Sheet Music," and think it's a fairly good book. But I got to the part advising me to get a medical exam for the purpose of possibly doing something to stretch me open so that it would hurt less on the wedding night?
I *hate* OB/GYN exams with a burning passion. They terrify me. But FI has said he doesn't want to hurt me on our wedding night.
Has anyone done this kind of exam? Does anyone wish they had? If it'd make things easier or less painful, I'd be willing to, but I have no way of judging whether getting an exam and doing something stretching, or just hoping it won't hurt, would result in less overall discomfort.
Any advice?