So my parents and inlaws don't get along at all. It started back when we got engaged in July and has continued to escalate over the almost 9months we have been engaged. The straw that finally broke my parents was Friday when my mom, Fi's grandmother and I went looking for fabric for my veil. When it came time to purchase the fabric, Fi's grandma handed to my mom to pay for. My mom and I were both under the impression she was buying everything for the veil and we didn't say anything but my mother wasn't happy about it. Other things have happened but it doesn't feel like either side wants to see the others perspective. It's putting a lot of stress on me which is putting stress on Fi because he knows I'm hurting and he can't do anything to help. I'm tempted for Fi and I to sit down with both sets of parents together and let them know how we feel but with how my mom has been recently I don't know if that would be a good idea. Plus I'm getting married in 40days. I'm just not sure.