I have been looking still for a venue in Tacoma, we have a hold on Union Station but there is 200 an hour set up/break down fee and no chairs available plue no one to help set up etc...
My sister has been looking for me and found a place that I would have never thought of and have not seen this in any bridal magazine so far.
Annie Wright School. It is an awesome private school in Tacoma down in the bowl overlooking the bay
http://awschools.org/http://www.aw.org/facilities/rentals?rc=0