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Grrrr. Is there anything we can do here?

We have two dogs.  They love to play and wrestle together, so if they get going in the house we usually kick them outside so as to save our posessions.  They are only outside when one of us is home, but we don't always go out with them.

There is an alley behind our house that people use for  walking through the neighborhood.  Our fence backs up to the alley.  Jacko has always been a little barky when people go through there, though we've learned that if people say hi to him he stops barking at them permanently.  Ever after when they come through he just wags his tail.  He does the barking whether we are outside or not.

Recently some kids have started coming through the alley and when J starts barking they scream at him and kick/hit the fence.  To my knowledge it's only happened twice.  The first time I didn't even realize what was going on until I heard our neighbor yell at them for antagonizing the dog.  The second time, today, I went outside as soon as I heard the kids.  By the time I was out there, the same neighbor had already flown out of his own backyard and was chewin' on the kids good about how rude and disrespectful it was for them to kick and hit the fence, that our dogs are nice and if they would be polite the dog wouldn't bark.

Our fence is a privacy fence so it's difficult for us to see through it to talk to people, and there's just one big gate (like for an RV or truck) that we'd have to unlock and open to get to the kids should it happen again.  Of course, we can't do that because then the dogs will get out. Is there anything you can think of that we can do, short of yelling at the kids to knock it off when that happens?

Re: Grrrr. Is there anything we can do here?

  • edited December 2011
    Put up a sign? Find out where the kids live and talk to them? I wondering if they are scared of the dog and yell to get him to go away. That's all the solutions I have, sorry.
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  • edited December 2011
    Has the neighbor coming to your rescue got a better look at the kids than you have? Maybe he would know who they are/where they live?

    Would it be super creepy if you found out who they were and talked to them, their parents? maybe introduced them to your dogs? since you said they'd stop barking after somebody said hi.

    I have absolutely zero experience with anything like this tho, soooo. I don't know for sure.
  • DramaGeekDramaGeek member
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    edited December 2011
    dani, I'm sure he did, since he was actually out in the alley when it happened.  When I see him out next I'll ask him.  He's our backyard neighbor (so it's our yard, the alley, his yard) and I'm not sure which street he even lives on, to tell you the truth, so it has to wait until he's outside again, but in the summer that's pretty much daily.

    I would have absolutely no problem introducing them to the dogs and explaining that barking is their way of yelling back, so when the kids yell it just makes the barking worse.  I've also though of putting up a sign on the fence telling people the dogs' names and that if they will speak calmly to the dogs to say hello the barking will stop, but I don't know if anyone would actually read it.
  • edited December 2011
    I would definitely ask the neighbor about it, he will probably be your best bet at this point.

    I am trying to decide if I would stop and read a sign on a fence when I was a kid... I am going to go with a big ol' yes, but that is probably because I was also a huge nerd, lol. So, I might give it a shot, you never know.

    Good luck!
  • xstarx05xxstarx05x member
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    edited December 2011
    aww that's so sad :(  i don't have any suggestions but PP sound good!

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  • edited December 2011
    I agree with the neighbor thing. And I feel your pain- I get SO sad when people dislike or are annoyed by my dog, even though he IS a bit too energetic, which can come off a little "crazy" sometimes. Dogs are a part of the family, though! 
  • FaithCaitlinFaithCaitlin member
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    edited December 2011
    I hate to be a debbie downer but I doubt a sign will stop the kids from.. well, being kids. :(

    I'd talk to the neighbor and I'd possibly put up a sign even though I wouldn't be fully convinced that it would stop the kids.

    I'm sorry this is happening! Your poor pup.

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  • edited December 2011
    Sometimes I really wish parents would be parents and make sure their kids aren't walking the neighborhood doing that kind of crap (especially kicking your fence).  I'm sorry this is happening.  A sign might help, but with kids like that, maybe not .... Perhaps you could talk with your neighbor about who the kids are and see if they're local enough to figure out who their parents are and talk with them.  How old are the kids?  If they're 14+ you may not even have much luck talking with their parents, unfortunately, in today's society. 
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