So a few weeks ago, FI found out his grandmother has throat cancer. He said she'd been having throat pains for about 6 months, but never went to the doctor. Now, from what I know of her, I think that was just her being stubborn. But maybe a little bit of not really knowing anything could be wrong. At the time she was diagnosed, they were unsure what stage it is.
Yesterday, FI told me that they now know she has Stage IV throat cancer. They removed her back 4 teeth so they can prepare to start doing radiation treatments. FI and his grandmother have a strange relationship. His whole family thinks she may be jealous (weird, I know but still) of the fact that his grandfather (her husband) always spent so much time with him whenever he was a child. FI has always been his grandfather's favorite. And FI's family has said repeatedly that they think his grandmother sort of resents him or is jealous of him for that fact. But despite that, it is his grandmother, and he does really love her. And FMIL is really torn up about it. So if you could just keep FI's grandmother and entire family in your thoughts and prayers, I would greatly appreciate it!
the reason it hurts so much to separate is because our souls are connected. ~nicholas sparks<3</center>