First of all thank you to all of you who have been praying for FI and I! and now for an update on the situation.
Things are going a lot better now, FI is learning to be more honest with me. He even told me yesterday "I don't know if keeping a secret from you is considered lying, but I'm having lunch with your mom sometime. She told me not to tell, but I didn't want to lie to you" So things are really starting go back to normal for us!
Once again thank you for all your prayers!