My fiance and I are growing in our relationship with God and want to put him at the head of our marriage. Praying together and reading the word has not only deepened our faith but also our relationship.
We are struggling with "sex outside of marriage." It is so easy to justify us sleeping together because we love each oher, are getting married, have wonderful intimacy, and neither of us were virgins when we met. We stopped having sex for three months and started back up again about two months ago. I don't want to stop just to follow a rule, I want to make God first in my life and marriage and think this is a way we can do this. We're praying for God to convict us if what we're doing is wrong and to give us self-control. We could press the re-start button and abstain until our wedding in October...I fear that I'd be taking away something that is going so well right now. It's like taking a good thing and giving it a bad image then having to think it's ok after the wedding. I know God will bless our union and we'd still have amazing sex as a married couple...
Has anyone given up sex as a couple after they've already started? Could anyone offer encouragement or specific verses for me to read on this? Prayers please...