Kurt and I are both Baptists. He feels that we should be married in the church that I grew up in (he is a member there now as well). But it doesn't really feel right to me to get married there. I love that church and the people as well but it just doesn't sit well with me for some reason. I want to be married in the church that my grandmother was married in. My wedding is practically honoring her anyways. She mean't so much to me and it is very painful because she isn't going to be there. The church that she was married in is a Methodist church. Kurt and his parents are against us being married in a Methodist church because we are Baptists. They say because FI is soon to be ordained as a deacon, it will look bad on him. I've never heard of that.
Is that an issue or are they just being nit-picky and over-reacting?