I need some help!
I am stuck! I am newly engaged, and also the MOH in my girlfriend's wedding. I feel like me being newly engaged has upset my girlfriend because I know she must feel some frustration, because I am supposed to be there for her, planning her big day, and now I have planning of my own to do. I am very excited to be there for her, and I'm trying to spread myself thin, but at times it get difficult. I sense her frustration, and I don't know what to do about it.
My real dilema is this: we've been talking about her bachelorette party, and the things that she wants - I just can't give her. They are not what I believe to be moral. I won't go into detail here. But, I just can't do the things she is asking me to do. I am very excited to make her big day special and perfect. But, I just can't do some of the things she's asking me to do. I don't know how to explain this to her, seeing as how I already sense her frustrations.
I need Godly advice - should I do these things, against my moral will, just because it is what she wants, and I'm supposed to be there for her? What should I do? Help!
We started dating on August 10, 2010
He proposed on November 5, 2010
We say, "I do," on August 12, 2011