my fiancee and I were together for 4 yrs before he proposed to me. I am a virgin. He is not but he has been chaste with me. I know he is not a virgin but not much more than that. I think he was with one girl, but maybe two. I am fairly sure he regrets it. I think early on he worried I would leave him for it. Part of me forgives his past and be thankful that he has been chaste with me. What matters most is the person he is now right? But part of me is jealous that I wont be his first like he'll be mine. I sometimes feel really sad about that.