Just asking for some prayers as I need to have a talk with FI tomorrow. After talking to one of my lovely (and very wise) BM's, I think FI and I need to redraw our physical boundaries. We're not having sex, but we've gone pretty far. While I'm a virgin, FI is not, and I think we weren't super clear about boundaries except for no sex before marriage. I think we should take a step back and focus on our other love languages (If you've ever read the 5 Love Languages book!), like Serving Others and Words of Affection. I know God will bless the "phsyical" aspect of our relationship at the time of our wedding, and I don't want to head into marriage with any guilt.
I'm nervous talking to FI about it, but he's an incredible man who is so understanding. I'm sure it'll go fine, it's just a tough conversation to have when it's something we're both struggling with!
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