I don't have too many friends that understand the whole church thing so I'm bringing this to you ladies.
So FI and I have been together for 6yrs. He is a non-active member at his church and I recently have become active at his church but I am not a member.
We do have kids and were planning on getting married Aug. 2012. He came to me last night and told me that he wants to become more active in the church! Of course I'm excited about this but that means that he wants to move the wedding up to Nov. 2011!
He wants a silent wedding with Bishop, and witnesses. No family or friends and then go on with the ceremony and reception in 2012 like planned.
Does it make sense to have a ceremony and reception after we're already married? Or should we just stick to our original plan and get married next year?