Today FI and I went to our first premarital counseling session with Pastor Mike. Pastor Mike is the associate pastor at our church, but he is NOT our officiant. Our officiant is actually unmarried, lol. So Pastor Mike offered to take over with the counseling. It was pretty neat. We got to know each other, and he told us that we would need to get For Men Only and For Women Only and read them. He also gave us Foccus personality assessments (to be returned to him ASAP) and a homework sheet with 5 questions. We are supposed to read the books (throughout the course of the six sessions), take the assessments, and answer the homework questions separately, then discuss them together with Pastor Mike at our next session. I am looking forward to it!