FI's grandma passed away this afternoon. She was in her late 80's and had Alzheimer's. The nursing home called FFIL a couple weeks ago and told him that she wasn't doing well at all. She had started lashing out at the staff because she didn't know who they were or where she was, and she thought they were trying to hurt her. Three days ago she was moved to a hospital. Today she passed away.
Funeral arrangements have not yet been discussed, but FI said in his family the funeral is usually about a week after the passing (not uncommon in the South, but mostly seen in African American families), which puts it within a week or so of our wedding. I hate to think of it in such terms, but it will definitely put a damper on the joy of many in FI's family for sure. Prayers would be appreciated.