We had wanted to ask our former pastor to officate our wedding but he hasn't responded since July so I've given up on him. We don't currently have a church so I thought I'd look into getting married at, and using the pastor from, my childhood church. The pastor there said he is available to marry us on that day but wants to interview us to see if his denomination allows him to.
We are a bit put off by this because it seems like our personal lives shouldn't be a concern to him. My fiance and i are both Christians but if the pastor expects us to be going to church every week and attending bible studies and such then we are toast...which means we will be without an officiant!
Has anyone had experience with this?