**kelseydjames**

BrideToBeBecauseHeLovesMe

[QUOTE]Hey dollface! I'm glad you came over here, you're the one May 11-er I was going to miss posting with, I was actually getting ready to send you a pm! How are you feeling? I'm sorry your wisdom teeth were such an awful ordeal :[
Posted by kelseydjames[/QUOTE]

Hey!!  Much much better thank you!!  My jaw is really sore because I hadn't eaten all week but other than that - I'm good to go!!  Here's the whole ordeal:

Monday:  Had wisdom teeth out, got sick from the anesthetic.
Monday and Tuesday:  Took a pain pill ever 4 hours.
Wednesday: I stopped and had a headache, and that night took one more pain pill.
Thursday: I didn't take anything and had a horrible migraine from rebound, but was toughing it out.  Then at 3 am I woke up (technically Friday morning) and my mom took me to the ER.
Friday morning at 3:  They gave me a shot of Morphine in my tummy, as well as a Zofran for the nausea, and some other shot in my tummy.  They put a bag of saline in me (which I'm very grateful for, I'll tell you why next).  Then they tried to give me Vicodin to take for the headache.  Well since it was a rebound migraine that wouldn't be smart.  They gave me a non-addictive pain med (which made me nauseous) and Zofran for the nausea (which gave me a headache) so after taking a headache pill I just stopped taking all medications.
Friday:  The surgeon doctor put medicated gauze in my bottom holes because they were partially infected and that night I was sick again.
Saturday:  Still sick - later we found out it was the flu.  UGH!!
Sunday: Just a bit of a headache.
Monday:  Surgeon doctor took out medicated gauze (painful!!) and put dissolvable medicated gauze in.  Worst taste ever!!

Fast forward to today - no more headache, I can eat, and the medicated gauze has dissolved so no more bad taste!!  I'm doing WONDERFUL now!!  Lol - just a horrible experience.  My mom told my grandma and my grandma is so cute - she asked if they grew back.  No - thank goodness!!

Gosh that was incredibly long, sorry!!

BrideToBeBecauseHeLovesMe

[QUOTE] <strong>Fave Bible Verse or Suggestions for this Board: 1 Timothy 4:12 " Don't let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in life, in love, in faith and in purity." We're both 20, so some people have had their doubts.
</strong>Posted by kelseydjames[/QUOTE]

I know exactly what you mean!!  I'm 18, FI is 19, and we'll both be 19 when we get married.  My mom was 19 when she got married and it didn't work, so that really doesn't help in reassuring - but when you know you know!!  And my mom has prayed about it and has had complete peace.  :)

kelseydjames

Oh my goodness, you poor thing :[ And I'm over here complaining about mine! I just had an allergic reaction to the norco and then developed an abssess, but luckily it cleared itself up before I saw a doctor. I'm so sorry it was awful! Did they take all 4? That's the one thing that kept me from wanting to roll over and die - they took all 4 so I never have to do it again!!

kelseydjames

Oh I'm so glad I'm not the only one!! Yeah, my great aunt and uncle got married at 17 (back in the day) and have been married 73 years. My mom got married at 24 and divorced. In my opinion, it's what you put into the marriage that counts, not how old you are. anyone who believes otherwise is just ignorant.

BrideToBeBecauseHeLovesMe

Yes they took all four - thank goodness!!  Poor FI is still scarred from changing my gauze Monday right after surgery after I threw up.  I'm so glad he loves me!!

And I completely agree - it's about the love, honor, committment, and communication.  It's not about age.  It's give and take - some days you give, some days you take, and some days you give and take 50 times.  It's about growing together - not seperately. 

kelseydjames

Oh gosh that had to be awful :[

Exactly! Are you planning on sticking to this board? I like this one much better already.

uneek1323

Kelsey its about maturity. I wish you a long and happy marriage but from what you've posted about, you need to grow up. I'm glad you've found another board.

kelseydjames

BridetoBe - You have a pm :]

kelseydjames

All I meant was that I like the topics on this board better. More prayers, less bashing. End of story.

uneek1323

You deleted the other post, but don't worry. I saw it.

uneek1323

I tried to support you when everyone thought you were crazy about freaking out over your ivory dress, but you crossed the line today and I'm quite sure I could report you for a personal attack.

kelseydjames

I deleted it because this was a conversation between me and Beth, not me and you. You had no buisness being in here in the first place. You crossed the line coming into a conversation no one wanted you to be a part of and throwing around insults. Asking you to leave me alone is not a personal attack. Report away, you have no merit for it, I never said anything mean.

I'm not even sure what pissed you off in the first place. I have always liked you, always. You give thoughtful opinions and I know that you supported me in that. That's why I've never once said anything against you, I've never had a reason to. But suddenly you were on here being mean and nasty for no reason.

fpaemp2011

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_christian-weddings_kelseydjames?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:464687ae-7bc1-4360-9aea-999e11f1e1adDiscussion:e79387de-c45a-4619-a62d-852ef985ecc4Post:febe4f1a-b245-4c5e-b4b1-3c57dce53dd9">Re: **kelseydjames**</a>:
[QUOTE]I deleted it because this was a conversation between me and Beth, not me and you. You had no buisness being in here in the first place. You crossed the line coming into a conversation no one wanted you to be a part of and throwing around insults. Asking you to leave me alone is not a personal attack. Report away, you have no merit for it, I never said anything mean. I'm not even sure what pissed you off in the first place. I have always liked you, always. You give thoughtful opinions and I know that you supported me in that. That's why I've never once said anything against you, I've never had a reason to. But suddenly you were on here being mean and nasty for no reason.
Posted by kelseydjames[/QUOTE]

Kelsey, you are more than welcome on this board, but if you want a conversation to remain private, then it should occur on private message and not on the board.  Just because it's a page doesn't mean others won't read it. 

uneek1323

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_christian-weddings_kelseydjames?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:464687ae-7bc1-4360-9aea-999e11f1e1adDiscussion:e79387de-c45a-4619-a62d-852ef985ecc4Post:febe4f1a-b245-4c5e-b4b1-3c57dce53dd9">Re: **kelseydjames**</a>:
[QUOTE]I deleted it because this was a conversation between me and Beth, not me and you. You had no buisness being in here in the first place. You crossed the line coming into a conversation no one wanted you to be a part of and throwing around insults. Asking you to leave me alone is not a personal attack. Report away, you have no merit for it, I never said anything mean. I'm not even sure what pissed you off in the first place. I have always liked you, always. You give thoughtful opinions and I know that you supported me in that. That's why I've never once said anything against you, I've never had a reason to. But suddenly you were on here being mean and nasty for no reason.
Posted by kelseydjames[/QUOTE]
This is a public forum. If I wasn't invited in, you should have PM'ed or emailed Beth. Otherwise it's all fair game. I'm not stupid to think that you asking me to leave you alone is a personal attack Please. It was the comment you made in a post you deleted stating that anyone who didn't agree with you was ignorant. THAT'S a personal attack and it was implied to be directed to me and other girls from last week's discussion. The only reason why I'm not reporting you is because it wasn't directly said to me. So, nice one.<div>
</div><div>I'm not being mean and nasty. I'm being truthful. You can't come to a different board and bring the drama with you and not expect people to respond. I'm pretty sure I wished you a happy and long marriage. I'm pretty sure I gave you some advice. If you consider that mean and nasty, then you really do have some growing up to do. I also said that I'm glad you found another board that you seem to like so far. Was that mean and nasty too?</div><div>
</div><div>You're young and some of us where giving you advice on how to deal with that in a marriage. How there <em>may </em>be some hard times in front of you because you have limited life experience at this point. No one ever said your marriage is doomed. We were just pointing out how there is a BIG difference between age 20 and age 28. If you didn't like the advice, you should have ignored it instead of coming over here and bashing us.</div>

kelseydjames

1. I didn't delete that. It's still there. and anyone who thinks a marriage is going to fail simply 100% on the fact that the bride and groom are young IS ignorant.
2. What conversation from last week are you even talking about? I don't rememer any conversation about it.
3. I took your previous statement incorrectly then. When you said you were glad I found another board, I took it as you were glad I was no longer on May, and I'm sorry I took that the wrong way.

kelseydjames

fpaemp2011 - I didn't care if other people read it. I care when people start insulting me.

uneek1323

So now I insulted you? Wow. You just don't stop do you?

kelseydjames

Telling me I'm immautre and need to grow up is an insult in anyone's book.

uneek1323

I'm not going to continue this arguement. I've made my point and you've proved it. I'm done.

kelseydjames

Fear not. I've requested my account be deleted. You'll have someone new to harrass soon enough I'm sure.