My FI and I are picking the location of our rehearsal dinner and I am finding it very annoying. We went to one place that we would love to have it and had dinner there and asked the owner (who my FI know because they went to school together) and the owner sounded excited and said he would love to do it and to email him so we could set up time to go there and talk about details. Well, the next morning I emailed him and I have yet to get a response and its been almost three weeks! So I was giving him the benefit of the doubt and giving him more time but now I am just getting annoyed. Especially since the email address seems like it would go directly to his phone (a verizon.net address). So I just emailed him again.
While I am being annoyed with the first place, I go and look for another because that is what I do, a just in case place. So I look on their website and they have a beautiful room and it would be perfect! So, I email them and NOTHING! AGAIN! I email them again telling them when I emailed them and that I have heard nothing back from them. MY FMIL said that she goes there sometimes for lunch and will talk to someone about it.
The first place we wanted it had a minimum of 40 people, and we do not want 40 people at our rehearsal dinner, it seems a bit much. My FMIL keeps suggesting places that my FI's sister did things and I just don't want to do anything like what she did, not because I don't like her, I love her, but I want to do it my own way.
I am just getting very annoyed by this whole process. rawr.