So, i need help. When my fiance proposed to me, a friend that I havent really seen in a while was at the cookout (obviously i had no idea he was going to propose!) Anways, I was so wound up in excitement, that I asked her to be a bridesmaid but i really don't want her to be one because shes not really a good friend. She never talks to me unless I'm the one calling her. She never associates with me. Its basically on her terms, when she wants, etc.
How can I let her down, easily?