Wedding Woes

Because it's slow

Just some rambles.

1.  I ate toast for lunch and it is staying down.  Here's hoping this is a recurring trend.

2.  Had lunch with my family yesterday, and it is amazing how advanced DD is compared to my niece (10 months older than DD).  Daycare and regular social interaction makes a world of difference, I don't care what any SAHM says.

3.  I have my fingers crossed that this latest round of divorce negotiations is the last and we can finalize everything this week.  If I can file on Friday, I will be a happy, happy girl.

4.  H's BFF and his wife are coming out in November.  They called me yesterday to ask me to go out with them while they are in town.  When I asked about xH going, too, they said, "We'd rather just meet him for breakfast or something."  Ha!  Good to know they are truly good, fun people.

5.  Coirker, whose check is already being garnished (partially) by her student loan company, now has a tax lien against her wages (present and future).  Looks like she won't be paid for at least two months based on the IRS calculations and levy.  ::smdh::  Have people never heard of a payment plan?

6.  xH will have DD from Weds. night until Monday morning.  I am stoked about having so much free time, but bummed b/c there's not too many people to do things with on a family-friendly holiday weekend.  Lover's bday is on Saturday, so I'm hoping he stops by so we can celebrate.

7.  My wee baby sister (22 y.o.) is engaged.  They are having a wedding they can afford (tiny, at home, potluck homemade cake style), probably by the end of this year.  Both she and her FI (29 y.o.) still live and home and work part time at Borders.  They are applying for real jobs, but who knows where that will take them.  Seems kind of premature to me, but best of luck to them.  They have been dating since 2006 or 2007, but I still think she is young and they are both immature.  Of course, I keep my feelings to myself b/c I'm a mildly on-edge divorcee and who wants my turrible marital advice?  At least I have a reason to go home and celebrate with them.

8.  My dad and his wife are constantly on the rocks.  IDK what she was thinking marrying a guy whose divorce was *just* finalized and still has so many loose ends with his ex-wife (financial, realty, kids, etc.).  Good luck to them, too, I guess.

8a.  Dad told his new wife that he never worries about me or calls me because I'm the "smart, responsible one."  That's nice and all, but that was kind of a slap in the face, too.

9.  I loved sleeping alone for the first few months.  Now I hate it.  The last week I've slept on the couch most nights so I'm not sleeping in such a big, empty bed.  And my couch is hella uncomfortable for sleeping.  I think I'm investing in a body pillow on my way home.  Mama Leg needs some sleep.

10.  Muah!

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Re: Because it's slow

  • 1. ::stay down toast vibes::

    2. I agree with you.  I'm not SAHM material.  I'm loving having the use of both hands and no one crying in my ear.  I miss my bugger-boo, but this is best for both of us.

    3.  Good luck! I hope it goes through.

    4. HEE! 

    5. People are stupid.

    6. Enjoy your time!  I hope you're feeling better by then.

    7.  Hmm...Good luck to them.  I hope it works out.   And I believe that you can have an opinion when it comes to family (especially siblings) despite what's in your past.

    8. :-/  and :-(

    9.  I love sleeping alone sometimes,  but it's nice to have a cuddle buddy.

    10. AWWW!!  She's so precious. And getting so big. 
  • 3 - crossing all crossables.

    8a - Yes. I am the 'dedicated' one, which means no thanks for my efforts, or consideration for my needs. Someone once told me, the only thing hard work gets you, is more hard work - and they were right.

    10 - ::smooches::
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  • 6fsn6fsn member
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    I hope the toast leads to better things. 

    Eh on the SAHM vs. daycare thing (shocker).  It all depends on the care and the mom.  Given the choices around here, I'm much better. 

    I hope the divorce goes well and yay to the friends.  Sounds like your sis is being reasonable, but yes 22 is young.

    I don't remember the last time I slept alone.  M2 has had issues falling asleep after the 330 feeding.  DH is getting used to me not being in the bed.  I'll come back to all of the covers gone or him sprawled over the whole bed.
  • 6fsn6fsn member
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    Oops- I forgot the biggest thing.  ADORABLE picture!
  • I too hope that your papers go through.

    I love that the BFF knows who is "real" fun and "Dennys" fun.

    Your daughter is so adorable.

    And I pray for some lovertime for you. 

    Also, sad that you're allergic to animals, you need a cuddlebuddy.
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  • In Response to Because it's slow:
     1.  *digestive vibes*
     2.  I couldn't be a SAHM - I love spending time with Wolverine, but I need to get out and be with other adults, and she needs to be around other kids. I saw the same thing with niece (who was in daycare from 3 months) and nephew (who couldn't adjust to daycare after 2.5 years at home with SIL). Niece was *WAY* more advanced socially. 
    5. SMDH @ people who are not fiscally responsible.
    6.  hoping for some hot birthday action
    7.  congrats to your sister, but see #5 above. I was 22 when i got engaged and moved in with DK, and 23 when we got married - but we both had full time jobs with good benefits and were fully supporting ourselves.  
    9.  i find it hard getting to sleep when i'm in bed alone (on business trips), but i love having the room to spread out.
    10.  she's adorable!
  • GBCKGBCK member
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    get the body pillow
    and lurve
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