Wedding Woes

Eating before praying

We don't pray in our house because we're dirty heathens.When we were kids though, it was a huge no-no to eat food before we prayed. In Sunday School or something, someone said that if you eat before you pray, you've eaten sin and it will make you sick. I translated this to mean that I was going to end up with cancer or something. To this day, if I eat and then someone prays I feel like that lump of food is sitting in my stomach like a lump of steel, waiting to kill me.Christian guilt, not as good as Catholic guilt, but still damn effective.

Re: Eating before praying

  • mrsconn23mrsconn23 member
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    edited December 2011
    We always prayed before we ate, but we were never told that we were 'eating in sin' if we didn't.  DH, the kiddo, and I also pray before meals. Interestingly, we *never* prayed before a meal when we went out to eat.
  • 6fsn6fsn member
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    edited December 2011
    We prayed before dinner at home.  Never any other meal and never out.  
  • edited December 2011
    we only said grace before dinner if we were at our grandparents' house.  or at holiday meals.
  • LnR70707LnR70707 member
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    edited December 2011
    we only prayed at holiday meals and at our grandparents house.
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  • edited December 2011
    I do both. If I know that the people I'm eating with don't say grace, then I'll say grace to myself. If I'm with some of my more praying friends we will pray as a table.
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  • edited December 2011
    We pray over meals at home and restaurants. It's not a big deal praying in public. It's not like we're screaming "Hallelujah" and saying 10 Hail Mary's.
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  • edited December 2011
    I silently bless my food. I've never shared that with anybody, even FI. I don't see a need to.
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