6 days before our wedding, my inlaws are apaprently getting cold feet. FSIL told my fiance that the way I live my life is inappropriate, that he should reconsider marrying me, that because I live my life differently than they would like me to, that it is disrespectful to them, and myself. I have done nothing but be respectful to them, to try everything in my power to be nice, cordial and have a good relationship with them. Not once have I been mean, cruel, disrespectful and I have bitten my tongue when they have insulted me, my family, and made me feel guilty for the decisions that I have made. They finally crossed the last line by doing this and I'm not sure what to do anymore. My FH is mortified, embarrassed and disappointed that in all of the things that they have told him about me and about his decisions, they have not once listened or considered his feelings, his needs or his own personal ambition. about ready to give up and have no relationship in the future