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So we either got closer or I ruined it

I asked dude BFF if we could meet to hang. Coffee, drinks, bikini waxes, whatever....his choice. His wife said yes, but he made it sound like she wasn't excluded.I said fine, let's make plans, but he needs to know that whenever she is around me, she gives me the biggest richard eye ever. So, now he'll either understand how I feel when she is around, or he'll have heard that as me saying she is a hoarderb and I suckass?
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Re: So we either got closer or I ruined it

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    **O-Face****O-Face** member
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    edited December 2011
    You had to do it sometime, right?  You did the "right" thing.
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    edited December 2011
    Chances are he already knows how his wife feels about you.
    "I would be sad if sex was only about the climax, lame." Someone who is obviously doing it wrong
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    edited December 2011
    Min, I'm sure that he knows how his wife feels about you.  Sad as it is, you guys might not be as close as you were before. I wouldn't go into major details about his wife, and her evil eye. Trust me, he already knows.
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    pegasuskatpegasuskat member
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    edited December 2011
    I guess I'm an old hag, but I wouldn't want my H to hang out with a woman that didn't want me around. You may have complete honest BFF intentions. But you have to see her side a little. I'm not really very jealous, H hasn't cheated and we have been married for almost 25 years, but I wouldn't like it.
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    edited December 2011
    She said he gave her permission, so I said let's make plans. Now, the ball is in his court.Last night I need "me" time which would have been nice to spend with a friend, but instead I went home and took a xanax and had some beers. I forced myself to do a lot of chores H's normally does to see if I could do it.I can and have learned that I can be pretty self-sufficent with out H.  
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    edited December 2011
    I said I would like to see him, but not to bother asking if it was going to get him trouble. I don't want him back in Sofa City. I've made efforts with her. She is the hardest looking person you have ever met. I went over to her house WITH A PUPPY and she didn't smile once. what? She's been cheated on and because this guy and are close, he knows I have been cheated on, too. He knows that I would never to do that my H or to his wife. That shyt is also just tackey.
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