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WHAT. C&P from TIP

Soooo......  I found out from a co-worker something that confirms my suspicion (husband came home from bparty with condom on... boys being boys... or betrayl?) that he slept with a stripper... as he so drunkenly announced at a work party (for my work, awesomeee...).  I'm trying really hard not to over-react... this is a 6 year relationship and we have been through so much together... but every time he "clarifies" something for me or I get some new unsolicited information from a "friend" it breaks my heart more.  I'm pretty spiritual and believe that marriage should be forever.  And I thought I was good with that until I realized that I now don't think I can stand to kiss him, let alone sleep with him... should I stay or should I go?  Has anyone been through something similar to this and how did you cope with it and make the decision to stay or go?
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    edited December 2011
    Ha! hahahahaha! Ha! I... ha! Sorry, I got nothing for this.
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    edited December 2011
    Why is this so funny to me? Why?
    "I would be sad if sex was only about the climax, lame." Someone who is obviously doing it wrong
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    L_WoodsL_Woods member
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    edited December 2011
    WTF could she not figure out from the fact he arrived at home with the condom still on? Did she think he somehow got all prepped for her before he got home from the party?
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    **O-Face****O-Face** member
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    edited December 2011
    It's not like he was naked and didn't want his peen getting drinks on it or something.The chick married a total dickbag.
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    **O-Face****O-Face** member
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    edited December 2011
    Exactly, E.
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    hmonkeyhmonkey member
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    edited December 2011
    we have been through so much together.well, you enjoy your stds together then.
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    edited December 2011
    That's some kind of drunk.   Ewww.
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    6fsn6fsn member
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    edited December 2011
    Um, I'm not sure there is any way to over-react to this.  Even a Bobbitt wouldn't be too out of line.
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    edited December 2011
    (husband came home from bparty with condom on... boys being boys... or betrayl?) I'm sorry, I've never had a man come from anywhere with a condom on. EVER.
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    **O-Face****O-Face** member
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    edited December 2011
    Now that you mention it, Hooka-me either.  Weeirrrddd.
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    edited December 2011
    If my man came home with a condom on and said "Boys will be boys!", I'd think I was in a Star Jones/Al Reynolds situation. Boys will be boys does not involve anyone's exposed penis.
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    E SquaredE Squared member
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    edited December 2011
    I think I'm going to name my daughter Betrayl.
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    L_WoodsL_Woods member
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    edited December 2011
    I have had a man come from one side of the room to the other with a condom on, but that's it. And only once.
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    hmonkeyhmonkey member
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    edited December 2011
    i know, hooka.  and what was the discovery process like?  "hey -- what's that?" [img]http://i.ehow.com/images/GlobalPhoto/Articles/5221453/GrillTastyChickenMarinate_Full.jpg[/img]
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    DG1DG1 member
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    edited December 2011
    I can't get past the part where he still had the condom on.  Aren't they uncomfortable? As in, you take it off pretty much asap because it's bugging you?  Was it supposed to make her feel better that he wore one at all? 

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    **O-Face****O-Face** member
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    edited December 2011
    *GAG*That's so wrong, hmo.Also-I think Betrayl is some sort of demon.
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    edited December 2011
    This makes me wonder if women aren't some type of stupid. If she came home with a condom hanging from her vag, he wouldn't ask any questions. All of her sht, to include her person, would be on her mama's porch within the hour.
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    edited December 2011
    Wrong...wrong...wrong.
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    **O-Face****O-Face** member
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    edited December 2011
    Condom hanging out of a vag?  Wow.  Now that?  That's art right there.
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    E SquaredE Squared member
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    edited December 2011
    DED, Monkey.
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    edited December 2011
    Thank you lord, for this post for which we have just been blessed. For this, I thank you and all of it's bounties.
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    edited December 2011
    hmo, you are killing me!
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    mrsconn23mrsconn23 member
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    edited December 2011
    this is a 6 year relationship and we have been through so much together = this has happened many times. ::hums "I'm in Love With a Stripper"::
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    **O-Face****O-Face** member
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    edited December 2011
    ::points up::
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    LnR70707LnR70707 member
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    edited December 2011
    condom...still...on... WTF
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    zsazsa-stlzsazsa-stl member
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    edited December 2011
    I stopped counting at 80 highly disgusting and stupid things in this post.  Although I have to say that this man must be one hell of a salesman if he was able to explain away coming home fully dressed.
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    tawillerstawillers member
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    edited December 2011
    So either: 1) She doesn't know how condoms work. You don't just throw them on a flacid peen. or 2) She wonders if her husband became erect and put on a condom for his buddies at his bparty.
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    edited December 2011
    Wait, he ANNOUNCED that he had sex with stripper at her office party and she still needs proof? What?
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    tawillerstawillers member
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    edited December 2011
    *flaccid
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    edited December 2011
    Taw, either one should have her worried.
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