11-09-2009 at 1:17 PM gwenhwyvar... Joined on 10-26-2009 Escondido, CA 4 Posts 90 Points --> Frustration . . . Advice? --> My hunny and I have been TTC for almost a year (I got of BCP last December after about 10 years straight) and only in the past two cycles have I had "normal" (32 days) cycles. Before that I had them as long as 50-some days. Hopefully we'll have a better chance now. Most frustrating part? We're not married and I'm afraid my parents and family would be judgemental, so we're not telling them we're TTC . . . But when it does happen I don't know if I'm going to tell them we were trying or if we'll just say it was an "accident" so we don't catch crap . . . But then it would diminish all of the heartache and hard work we put into getting KU?? Any advice or suggestions? I don't want to tell my kid they were an "accident" when they weren't and we worked so hard to bring them into this world. You would think as a 27 year old I would be able to just tell my parents right? It's just scary because I don't want them to be disappointed in me . . .************My response was that if she was even considering passing her child off as an accident to appease the parents, she wasn't emotionally ready/mature to TTC.and also, if they are ready to commit to a child, whyTF can't they commit to each other? is that too narrow-minded for this day and age?
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