1) Why is MIL already at my house? 2) Why is she answering my phone? (I called to check messages)3) Even worse- Dh and I decided to get 6let a little basketball hoop for Christmas. MIL told me she ran into sMIL at the store this morning. sMIL and MIL had each bought a hoop already. Great. Now we have to come up with something else.