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mrsconn23

Read the post below.  All of the responses are generally the same except for one.  Now the OP allegedly has cancer (I say allegedly b/c I don't know her IRL and don't trust people of the interwebz for the most part).  I'm wondering if that's playing into why no one reacted differently.  Personally, there's something about the OP that really bothers me.  I think b/c I believe she had a different handle and there was a HUGE scandal with her and then she changed it and no one has picked up on the fact that her story and scandal chick's are quite similar. [url]http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/25853341.aspx[/url]

nicoleg1982

Not found, you slut.

mrsconn23

I have the C+P:J+RNot RankedJoined on 06-26-20081,755 Posts33,689 PointsJ+R is online. Last active: 11-12-2009, 9:31 AMBronze    Statutory Rape?Okay I've never had the balls to ask my DH this... So Im asking you ladies :)BM and DH had a one night stand when BM was 16 and DH was 19.  BM didnt tell DH about the baby for a very long time (she was 17 when she had her and DH didnt know he was the dad until she was 8, although he knew that she was pregnant/baby when he was 19)  How did the BM's mother (grandma) not pursue Statutory rape charges if she was 16 and DH was 19?? This took place in Massachusetts if that helps.Is it because there was no proof (no paternity test, DH not on the birth certificate) or what?Grandma is a slimy, super rich, sleazeball so I know she had an awesome attorney (especially when they went to court for the paternity, child support, etc.) and the money to pursue it if she wanted. I really thought she woulda pushed that!  Just curious because I've always wondered that but never wanted to ask. haha, killing time on here answering posts until I start the meds! LOLDiagnosed w/ a rare form of Leukemia in June 2009, strongly optimistic!"Let me throw one more dice, I know I can win. Don't you understand?? I have a plan... I'm waiting for my real life to begin."Daisypath Anniversary tickersVacationOur "Blueberry" 7w, 1d Always on my mind... ReportReply Quote Contact11-11-2009 at 5:15 PMfellesferi...Not RankedJoined on 06-01-2009639 Posts11,916 Pointsfellesferie is online. Last active: 11-12-2009, 9:27 AMBronze    Maybe they didn't want to go through the hassle and embarrassment of pursuing it.My mom used to kind of see herself as a public figure—and she sort of was within her hospital and other circles. Everytime one of my sisters pulled something (got arrested, suspended from school, etc), she got SUPER embarassed and her first instinct was always to ignore/cover up.  ReportReply Quote Contact11-11-2009 at 5:21 PMJ+RNot RankedJoined on 06-26-20081,755 Posts33,689 PointsJ+R is online. Last active: 11-12-2009, 9:31 AMBronze    Maybe? I would have assumed that grandma would have wanted to blame someone, ANYONE for her precious innocent 16 yr old getting knocked up... BM flat out refused to have DH take a paternity test or put him on the B.C. Thats why DH didnt know for so long... So maybe without BM allowing that (even though she would tell people that he was the dad... then change her story to it wasnt...)  I dunno?Diagnosed w/ a rare form of Leukemia in June 2009, strongly optimistic!"Let me throw one more dice, I know I can win. Don't you understand?? I have a plan... I'm waiting for my real life to begin."Daisypath Anniversary tickersVacationOur "Blueberry" 7w, 1d Always on my mind... ReportReply Quote Contact11-11-2009 at 5:28 PMtifanicoNot RankedJoined on 06-10-2008Colombia in South America Not Columbia MD!!!1,185 Posts23,242 Pointstifanico is online. Last active: 11-12-2009, 9:25 AMBronze    I guess they thought it was more important for them not to have your DH in SD´s life than deal with the other issue?. I don't know, I find it weird too.NestBaby Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker ReportReply Quote Contact11-11-2009 at 6:41 PMwendileaNot RankedJoined on 10-06-2008Kansas1,782 Posts36,668 Pointswendilea is online. Last active: 11-12-2009, 9:33 AMBronze    At 16, she was over the age of consent.  According to Massachusets law, statutory rape occurs when there is sex with someone who has not yet reached their 16ths birthday.http://www.belmontpd.org/Divisions/CP/statatuory_rape_info.htmPhotobucketAnniversaryPhotobucket ReportReply Quote Contact11-11-2009 at 8:44 PMtaagentNot RankedJoined on 08-21-2005South Carolina3,701 Posts80,637 Pointstaagent is online. Last active: 11-12-2009, 9:32 AMSilver        wendilea:    At 16, she was over the age of consent.  According to Massachusets law, statutory rape occurs when there is sex with someone who has not yet reached their 16ths birthday.    http://www.belmontpd.org/Divisions/CP/statatuory_rape_info.htmThis!  In most states the legal age of consent is 16 so it wouldn't have been statutory rape.Sarah & Scott[/url] My BFPChart My Blog Lilypie Kids birthday Ticker ReportReply Quote Contact11-11-2009 at 9:26 PMdriveshors...Not RankedJoined on 04-04-2009NW Ohio18 Posts360 Pointsdriveshorses is online. Last active: 11-12-2009, 9:30 AMNewbie    I'm not sure about Mass. but here in Ohio its not statutory rape, or rather it would be "unlawful sexual conduct with a minor". Between the legal age of consent there can be a less than 4 year age difference and it still be "legal".I can only recite Ohio law, but I imagine its probably somewhat close seeing as how the age of consent is usually around the same age in most states. So the reason why she probably didn't push it was because she wasn't able to get anywhere with it! ReportReply Quote Contact11-11-2009 at 9:29 PMJ+RNot RankedJoined on 06-26-20081,755 Posts33,689 PointsJ+R is online. Last active: 11-12-2009, 9:31 AMBronze    Ah okay, gotcha They just seem to try everything else to screw my DH - I was shocked that they didnt try that... Thanks for the clarifications :)Diagnosed w/ a rare form of Leukemia in June 2009, strongly optimistic!"Let me throw one more dice, I know I can win. Don't you understand?? I have a plan... I'm waiting for my real life to begin."Daisypath Anniversary tickersVacationOur "Blueberry" 7w, 1d Always on my mind... ReportReply Quote Contact11-12-2009 at 12:04 AMMrsBPONot RankedJoined on 02-23-2007Seattle 'burbs4,285 Posts77,689 PointsMrsBPO is not online. Last active: 11-12-2009, 12:48 AMSilver    As a PP mentioned, it doesn't meet the standard for statutory rape.Very basic format:Child Under SixteenMGL. c.265, s. 23. [Commonly known as the Statutory Rape Law]. Rape and abuse of child.Whoever unlawfully has sexual intercourse or unnatural sexual intercourse, and abuses a child under 16 years of age, shall be punished by imprisonment in the state prison for life or for any term of years or, except as otherwise provided, for any term in a jail or house of correction. A prosecution commenced under this section shall neither be continued without a finding nor placed on file.MGL c.265, s. 23A Rape and abuse of child aggravated by age difference between defendant and victim or by when committed by mandated reporters; penaltiesWhoever unlawfully has sexual intercourse or unnatural sexual intercourse, and abuses a child under 16 years of age and:(a) there exists more than a 5 year age difference between the defendant and the victim and the victim is under 12 years of age;(b) there exists more than a 10 year age difference between the defendant and the victim where the victim is between the age of 12 and 16 years of age; or(c) at the time of such intercourse, was a mandated reporter as defined in section 21 of chapter 119, shall be punished by imprisonment in the state prison for life or for any term of years, but not less than 10 years. The sentence imposed on such person shall not be reduced to less than 10 years, or suspended, nor shall any person convicted under this section be eligible for probation, parole, work release, or furlough or receive any deduction from his sentence for good conduct until he shall have served 10 years of such sentence. Prosecutions commenced under this section shall neither be continued without a finding nor placed on file.(\__/) This is bunny. Copy and paste bunny(='.'=) into your signature to help him gain(")_(") world domination. ReportReply Quote Contact11-12-2009 at 8:50 AMYuppyNot RankedJoined on 09-26-200959 Posts1,283 PointsYuppy is online. Last active: 11-12-2009, 9:29 AMNewbie    I've read about your situation and I'm trying to be kind.. But did you really just come on here calling your DH out as a rapist? Statory or not if you think your DH is a rapist and/or could be accused of being a rapist for the love of little green aliens don't put that crap on the bump.Holy bejesus that's just dumb!   ReportReply Quote Contact11-12-2009 at 10:11 AMKarma1969Not RankedJoined on 05-31-2004Michigan5,128 Posts105,196 PointsKarma1969 is online. Last active: 11-12-2009, 9:32 AMSilver    In many states the age of consent is 16 unless the person is an authority figure.PhotobucketLilypie ReportReply Quote Contact11-12-2009 at 10:12 AMKarma1969Not RankedJoined on 05-31-2004Michigan5,128 Posts105,196 PointsKarma1969 is online. Last active: 11-12-2009, 9:32 AMSilver    I shoudl have read the other posts before I posted mine.  Sorry!PhotobucketLilypie ReportReply Quote Contact11-12-2009 at 10:29 AMJ+RNot RankedJoined on 06-26-20081,755 Posts33,689 PointsJ+R is online. Last active: 11-12-2009, 9:31 AMBronze    NO  Yuppy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I wanted to know because BM and her family has tried to get him for everything that he's worth. I was shocked that they didnt try that.  I always thought that if you were under 18/over 18 you could be in trouble.  I was shocked that they didnt try that route also.Of course I wouldnt call my husband a rapist! Thats just stupid.Diagnosed w/ a rare form of Leukemia in June 2009, strongly optimistic!"Let me throw one more dice, I know I can win. Don't you understand?? I have a plan... I'm waiting for my real life to begin."Daisypath Anniversary tickersVacation

**O-Face**

She dd'd?  I have it in entirety if anyone wants it.

PMeg819

She must have deleted it. Here's the gist of the post: Chick's DH was 19, dating a 16 yo girl. Girl gets knocked up and has baby when she's 17. DH knew she was pregnant, did not know it was his until the child was 8. Grandma is super rich, could have gone after DH for money, etc. Why didn't Grandma go after DH for statuatory rape?People told her it's because it wasn't really rape. One person told her that she was an idiot for posting that. OP has signature saying she has rare leukemia and had a miscarriage (with sounds a little drama llama AW-y).Personally, she's an idiot posting it. And why would the Grandma go after some idiot 19 yo? Other than throwing him into jail, what's she going to get? ADURR.

tawillers

I kept reading BM as bridesmaid.

**O-Face**

I don't get why she would share.  It's a little weird to me.

nicoleg1982

Me, too, Taw.WTH is her problem?  Who sits around wondering if her H's teenage escapades could've been statutory rape and why wasn't he prosecuted for it?!  I have better schit to do during the day.

mrsconn23

OP has signature saying she has rare leukemia and had a miscarriage (with sounds a little drama llama AW-y).It wasn't a miscarriage per se...She supposedly found almost simultaneously that she had cancer and KU.  Her Dr's suggested that carrying the baby to term was not a good idea.  She followed their advice. BUT, she was supposedly trying and trying and trying to get KU and they never did and then she supposedly found out that she had cancer and was KU...And the stories all just fit together a little too neatly for me not to raise an eyebrow.

mrsconn23

And there's a part of me that feels bad for being such a skeptic about it because it could all be true, but there's something about her that just doesn't sit right.  And when she was trying to get KU before she was diagnosed with cancer, she had a blinky in her siggy that said "Come on spermies, you can do it."  And that annoyed the schit out of me.

fishgirl77

I saw that earlier and thought it was odd.  It's definitely not something I would post on the internet.

**O-Face**

I understand sharing troubles, life stuff, but sometimes TMI is just that.  TMI

PMeg819

It's still AWy in a sense. I don't have a problem with people who put stuff in their signature about a miscarriage. Everyone grieves in a certain way, but like you said..something just rubs me the wrong way. I feel like the leukemia thing and the miscarriage thing just opens her up for someone to say "oh no, you poor thing" which is what she wants. The whole post has this underlying feeling like she wants drama/attention in her life.