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Stephi updated

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Down below if you didn't see it.I hate to be all, "yay for leaving a jackass over the internet", but YAY FOR TAKING INTERWEBZ ADVICE AND LEAVING THE JACKASS.
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Re: Stephi updated

  • ReturnOfKuusReturnOfKuus member
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    edited December 2011
    I too was surprised at that. Is anyone else getting the feeling that he wants out too, but can't find a "good enough" reason after all this time to end it?
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  • TheDuckisTheDuckis member
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    edited December 2011
    Is anyone else ridiculously pleased that the jackass won't be getting his 100 Blu Ray discs anytime in the near future?
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  • hmonkeyhmonkey member
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    edited December 2011
    why would he want to leave?  he's getting free living expenses.
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  • jojobrnjojobrn member
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    edited December 2011
    I am guessing that given he doesn't pay any costs right now, he won't be as ready to leave as Stephi would hope.I think staying a night away then getting in there and dumping his stuff on the lawn and changing the locks is likely the best way to handle it.
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  • TheDuckisTheDuckis member
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    edited December 2011
    Like I said below, there's going to be a lot of temptation and pressure over the next few weeks for her to take him back. I'm betting that the majority of that is going to come from him realizing he doesn't want to give up his free ride or his Blu-Rays.Stephi, you can come back to us any time you need extra strength. We will tell you like it is.
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  • Stephileigh84Stephileigh84
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    edited December 2011
    He is... I guess I'm giving him tonight and tomorrow while I'm at work to move out. That and crying time with mommy (I'm such a momma's baby).
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  • Cant_wait!Cant_wait!
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    edited December 2011
    and if he's not gone when you get home from work tomorrow, I hope you finish his move out for him. And change the locks. And jojo has free puppies if you need a guard dog.
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  • Future Mrs ButterworthFuture Mrs Butterworth member
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    edited December 2011
    Me too Stephi. Also - I highly suggest you drive to Cali and pick up a puppy.
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  • Stephileigh84Stephileigh84
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    edited December 2011
    Awe puppy... I've got one puppy. I'll probably get my little man a girlfriend in a few months. : ) And hey at least I already have weekend plans... New moon right?!
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  • Future Mrs ButterworthFuture Mrs Butterworth member
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    edited December 2011
    New Moon with friends! I'd be calling people up for emotional support left and right if I were you. Then again after 7 years all your friends may be intertwined. In which case I'd be on meetup.com making new friends.
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  • Stephileigh84Stephileigh84
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    edited December 2011
    No they're not intertwined... he doesn't have any friends other than the guys he works with.
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  • Future Mrs ButterworthFuture Mrs Butterworth member
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    edited December 2011
    Well there you go. When I left my ex all his "friends" were calling me thanking God I had finally broken up with him, and now they wouldn't have to invite us both out, just me. I got all the friends, he got his just deserts, aka his bitter buddies to pal around and pick up strippers with.
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  • Stephileigh84Stephileigh84
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    edited December 2011
    Yuck. The biggest thing I'll miss is his parents. Now he's all "come home, let's make up and lay in bed and talk".No thanks.
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  • MinMMinM
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    edited December 2011
    He's testing you. Trying to see if he can call your bluff. This is why you have been off and on so many times. You are the only person that can get yourself off this rollercoaster. Personally, I'd pack his shyt for him and call the locksmith. I don't care if they charge extra after hours.
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  • Stephileigh84Stephileigh84
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    edited December 2011
    Who needs a locksmith?All I need is a trip to Home Depot and a screwdriver.**sigh** this blows.
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  • VarunaTTVarunaTT member
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    edited December 2011
    I think you should take the night and try and figure out what it is you want.  I'll yell bloody murder if you go back, but if you go back with a list of "this is what I want, this is what I require, this is how I want to be treated and what I want our relationship to be", I think you'll see that he's not fulfilling any of those requirements.
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  • HookaPantsHookaPants
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    edited December 2011
    This may blow, but the alternative is living with him in a house built of BluRay cases after your financial life is in ruins.
    "I would be sad if sex was only about the climax, lame." Someone who is obviously doing it wrong
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  • MinMMinM
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    edited December 2011
    Like he'd share his BluRays???
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  • jojobrnjojobrn member
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    edited December 2011
    I'll have puppies ready to go on New year's, you just have to come to California....there is one in my siggie.....
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  • TheDuckisTheDuckis member
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    edited December 2011
    Who needs a locksmith?All I need is a trip to Home Depot and a screwdriver.I knew I liked you. I also know you don't need him. You'll be fine. And if you feel yourself slipping we are here to get you back on track. 
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  • Stephileigh84Stephileigh84
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    edited December 2011
    Thank you guys. Really.
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  • SchmoopitaSchmoopita member
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    edited December 2011
    I know I'm late but good for you! Be strong! You are doing the right thing. Good luck and give that doggy a big old hug for me.
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