Awkward Bridesmaid Issue

egebhart22

 My fiance and I were introduced by our very good mutual friend who will also be officiating the service for us. His ex- girlfriend and current girlfriend happen to be my two best friends and the sum total of my bridal party. I am definitely closer with his current girlfriend, whom I would like to ask to be my maid of honor, but I am worried about this making things even more awkward. As it is, the two girls do not get along and make each other very uncomfortable. I am not sure how to handle the situation without hurting feelings.

zitiqueen

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[QUOTE] My fiance and I were introduced by our very good mutual friend who will also be officiating the service for us. His ex- girlfriend and current girlfriend happen to be my two best friends and the sum total of my bridal party. I am definitely closer with his current girlfriend, whom I would like to ask to be my maid of honor, but I am worried about this making things even more awkward. As it is, the two girls do not get along and make each other very uncomfortable. I am not sure how to handle the situation without hurting feelings.
Posted by egebhart22[/QUOTE]

You could just not have a MOH at all. Problem solved.

ZombieNates

How small is your social circle?

MoonlightSilver

I'm only having two bridesmaids, and therefore not having a MOH- even though I know one of the girls is closer to me than the other.