My wedding planning has not officially begun, but my groom has told me that he wants to help plan the wedding. So far he's vetoed a couple of my ideas, but when I asked him about venue (and booked said venue), he told me to do whatever I wanted. I will admit, when he first told me that he wanted a say in the planning, and epecially when he veto-ed some ideas, I was a bit vexxed. But I didn't really think that much of it. Especially when he said, "Whatever you want, babe," about the venue. My mother, however, thinks him wanting to be involved means that he's controlling, and will continue to be controlling through our marriage. None of my married or engaged friends husbands or fiancees wanted that much to do with planning. Could my mother be right?