today's ask amy is all about you!
Dear Amy: I've been married for 12 years and am trying to recover from my husband's affair, which lasted for several months.
He was very much in love with this married woman, but she ended it. This was not her first affair.
They connected on Facebook, and after she ended the affair she removed him as a "friend" on the site. Well, three months later they are friends again on Facebook.
I told him it is disrespectful to have any communication with her. He claims they have been friends since school, and I told him the dynamics of their friendship changed the day their affair started.
I feel it is unfair to me for them to be in touch. I do not want a divorce, but I also can't be married to a man who communicates with a woman he had an affair with.
Am I wrong?
— Brokenhearted