Who do you feed at the rehearsal dinner and what do you serve. We are planning on feeding our wedding party, OOT guest, and whoever wants to come. Do we serve alcohol? We are at such a loss and have no idea how to plan this. We are planning on having it at a friends house that is about a mile from the wedding/reception site. We are planning on pulled pork, fried chicken, and home-style sides for our reception. So what do we serve here? Any ideas and thoughts would be greatly appreciated.