My fiance's family seems completely uniterested in the fact that we're getting married. This is a second wedding for both of us, and we're having a relatively small reception of about 40 people. While my family is buzzing around asking if we need anything, my sister is planning everything for the bachelorette party etc, I had to ask my sister's hubby to plan a bachelor party for my fiance because his brother, the best man, planned nothing. His parents have never asked how the planning is going or anything other than "why do we have to dress up for the wedding, and why is there only an hour of open bar, and why on earth would you be wearing a white dress?" Am I the only one who has this issue? In everyday life I love my future inlaws for the most part (hey we all have our faults), and I realize I don't need their approval (although knowing that they are happy for thier son would make me feel better), but to seem like they could give two craps about it makes me feel like they really either don't care, or son't support thier son's decision, even though before we were engaged, they constantly asked when we were getting married. Am I crazy?