Okay this may seem petty, but it is causing me so much anxiety. My fiance's nephew is 4, only child, only grandchild, and NOBODY disciplines him. He just goes wild! I'm a teacher, I know kids are kids, but this is different. Every public place I have been with him, he has these glass-cracking scream fits in restaurants, stores, anywhere we go and the family looks at it as normal behavior while I am embarassed and mortified for them, people stop and make comments and give us dirty looks. I don't think they would flinch if he started screaming during our wedding, in a church. Ok, now the dilemma...My fiance's cousin is getting married 10 months before us and decided not to have the nephew as their ring bearer. However, they have received so much anger from the entire family, they are so offended and angry with them. So that leaves us
I feel like the only way to keep the peace is to have him in our wedding, but I'd like to actually hear my vows. What can I do??