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oh for crying out loud.

http://www.foxnews.com/us/2011/04/11/jcrew-ad-showing-boy-pink-nail-polish-sparks-debate-gender-identity/#ixzz1JJSjsSHS

This is stupidly low even for Fox

National Interest

J.Crew Ad Showing Boy With Pink Nail Polish Sparks Debate on Gender Identity

By Diane Macedo

Published April 11, 2011

| FoxNews.com

Jenna Lyons holds son Beckett's pedicured foot in as text below the image reads, "Lucky for me I ended up with a boy whose favorite color is pink. Toenail painting is way more fun in neon."

 

Jenna Lyons holds son Beckett's pedicured foot in as text below the image reads, "Lucky for me I ended up with a boy whose favorite color is pink. Toenail painting is way more fun in neon."

A J.Crew ad that shows a top designer painting her young son’s toenails neon pink has some parents and doctors seeing red.

The image appeared in a feature called www.jcrew.com/womens_feature/Jennaspicks.jsp" target="_blank">"Saturday With Jenna," which was emailed to customers last week and highlights a few of J.Crew president and creative director Jenna Lyons’ favorite products -- including the hot pink Essie nail polish seen on her son, Beckett.

The caption below the picture reads, “Lucky for me I ended up with a boy whose favorite color is pink. Toenail painting is way more fun in neon.”

But not everyone sees fun in the ad.

“This is a dramatic example of the way that our culture is being encouraged to abandon all trappings of gender identity,” psychiatrist Dr. Keith Ablow wrote in a www.foxnews.com/health/2011/04/11/j-crew-plants-seeds-gender-identity/" target="_blank">FoxNews.com Health column about the ad.

Media Research Center’s Erin Brown agreed, calling the ad “blatant propaganda celebrating transgendered children.”

“Not only is Beckett likely to change his favorite color as early as tomorrow, Jenna's indulgence (or encouragement) could make life hard for the boy in the future,” Brown wrote in www.mrc.org/cmi/articles/2011/JCREW_Pushes_Transgendered_Child_Propaganda_.html" target="_blank">an opinion piece Friday.  "J.CREW, known for its tasteful and modest clothing, apparently does not mind exploiting Beckett behind the facade of liberal, transgendered identity politics.”

But Jo B. Paoletti, author of “Pink and Blue: Telling the Girls From the Boys in America” told FoxNews.com she believes critics are overreacting.

“Lots of kids, say 7 and under, might ask their parents for something that would seem to be cross gender, and I think most parents, especially in the privacy of their own home might think, what’s the big deal?" Paoletti said.

J.Crew spokeswoman Margot Fooshee said the company had no comment on the ad. Jenna Lyons did not respond to direct requests for comment.

When asked if the ad crossed the line, a majority of Fox News Twitter users backed Paoletti.

“What line would that be? Not forcing your child to like a color just because gender stereotypes say they should?” one commenter known as along_the_path wrote.

But not everyone agreed.

“Why would I want my son to paint his toenails pink?” ohthatmomma wrote. “Why woukd [sic] I want my son to paint his toenails at all?”

Re: oh for crying out loud.

  • ReturnOfKuusReturnOfKuus member
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    I don't see why getting rid of gender identity is such a bad thing.
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  • nicoleg1982nicoleg1982 member
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    A little nail polish (on anyone) isn't going to make you reevaluate your gender identity.  I never pulled on a pair of overalls and wondered if maybe I was going to drop a few balls and grow a penis.
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  • 6fsn6fsn member
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    Is it the pink or the polsih?  Either way it's a bunch of who cares?

    I care more about thongs for 10 yos.
  • ReturnOfKuusReturnOfKuus member
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    Pink was a color for boys in medieval times, the faded red of a seasoned warrior.
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  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_oh-crying-out-loud?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:2b9984df-5591-40fd-8bc8-74ceb112d4e1Post:b3336567-255f-47b5-bda9-2a23f07f9724">Re: oh for crying out loud.</a>:
    [QUOTE]I don't see why getting rid of gender identity is such a bad thing.
    Posted by ReturnOfKuus[/QUOTE]
    It undermines the sanctity of marriage and we will all end up marrying our dogs, or something.

    (For the lurkers, that was sarcasm)
  • baconsmombaconsmom member
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    edited December 2011
    Dogs and cats, living together, it's madness! 


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  • **O-Face****O-Face** member
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    I saw that, and honestly thought..."oh that color was from last summer".  People are whacko.
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  • loveshine1loveshine1 member
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    Oh who cares?! I saw the picture in the catalogue, and I thought it was cute. What is the big deal?
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  • FaburawFaburaw member
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    Well, Dr, Ablow pals around with Glenn Beck, and you know what THAT means...there's a conspiracy around every corner. It all boils down to people who still feel that homosexuality or transgender issues are either a choice or being "forced"...or it doesnt occur to them that a little kid could really just like the color pink.
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  • VarunaTTVarunaTT member
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    edited December 2011
    I'd be more worried about his girly curls than his pink toes.

    ;O
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