is this normal or am i crazy?

nmh209

 

hmonkey

have you never cried before?  like, ever?

Heffalump

POAS

LnR70707

You graduated FROM college.  No one graduates college.  Ugh.

You're totally knocked up.  POAS.

Butter Cookie

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[QUOTE]I had my shower this weekend followed by my bach. party.      My sister and bridesmaids did such an amazing job planning everything.   I had so much fun!   They had it at my favorite restaurant and tried to have it as a surprise.   They had picked out the perfect favors, my ‘famous’ sugar cookie recipe and cookie cutters.   I then got to spend the whole weekend with my family which was great because they live kind of far away and I don’t get to see them as often as I would like.   And now I just feel so weepy and I really don’t know why. Last night I cried and my FI was freaked out, he didn’t know why I was so upset and neither did I.   I got some really nice things.   It’s not like I am upset because I did not get what I wanted or anything.   I don’t know if I feel overwhelmed or freaked out because the wedding is so close now.   I love my fiancé to death.   He is my best friend and I want to be with him forever.   So it’s not like I am second guessing getting married.   I almost feel like all the major events in our life have happened in the last few months that I just exhausted.   I graduated college, got my first full time job, got a better full time job, got engaged, moved in together, and then bought our first house and our first car together.     Am I normal or just crazy?   Please tell me someone else has felt like this.
Posted by nmh209[/QUOTE]
You're getting married. You're surrounded by and overflowing with people who love you deeply and have shown you that. I'd say it's pretty normal to cry. Don't freak out over it. 

Sposati

I know, I hate these biiches too.

[Deleted User]

Its normal. I cried after my shower too. It is just all of the emotions and life changes that have happened so fast and close together. It is the body's way of dealing with it. Go relax and have a drink or two...

lharri12

You've got a LOT going on right now and are just overwhelmed.  It's okay, not abnormal, especially if you're premenstrual.  I know my emotions can be a little out of whack around that time....  Or preggers?! 

LnR70707

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: is this normal or am i crazy? : thank you for being nice, some people on here are pretty nasty.
Posted by nmh209[/QUOTE]

::snort::

No one was mean.  Being able to use proper grammar doesn't make me mean.  Why don't you go cry about it?

Mrs.Thistletwat

Yeah I cry on the regular. H knows it's been a long day when I walk in, close the door and burst into tears. It could be a great day or one where I want to die. Either way I cry.