So I'm not too sure if I'm being crazy or not, so any help would be appreciated
My mother has always been against alcohol, and needless to say was not happy when we told her we were having an open bar. She said she doesn't understand how people need alcohol to have fun, and that we are turning out wedding into a club/bar by having alcohol and a DJ. I talked with her about having some form of it, and she said she would be ok with just serving margaritas would be fine.
Now three months later FMIL let us know that the caterer is going to have beer as well as the margaritas. I have no problem with this, but when my mother found out she said 'Oh, I guess I won't be going to the reception..." I tried to explain to her no one is going to get wasted, having beer as well is not a huge deal, and it's already payed for and done by FMIL. She proceeded to hand the phone to my Dad who told me she said she couldn't handle talking to me and that he would try to talk to her about it (he thinks she being unreasonable as well). I'm lost on what to do on this!
I want my mother at the wedding, but hate how she it threatening to not show up if I don't do things her way. I would feel horrible asking my FMIL to see if we can cancel having the beer with her having already payed for it with the catering. Plus we are all getting frustrated with the whole alcohol situations. Am I crazy for trying to talk this out with my Mom and wait to see what happens, or do I need to just cancel the alcohol and deal? Thanks for your opinions!