~Zoberg~

DixieNormous330

Why do you *need* everyone to like you? And tell us about yourself. You can't just pop into a dead thread and that's it.

harper0813

Ha ha! You scared the dickens out of me - I've never had my name in a post title before!

I'm in a new job and I want to show that I'm dedicated, flexible, and a hard worker. I am one of the only women in a mostly male office, working in an industry that is new to me, and I feel a significant need to work extra hard and show everyone that hiring me was a good decision. Plus, my last job involved working a LOT of unpaid overtime and it left a bad taste in my mouth, so I think my inclination to be passive aggressive is sort of a knee-jerk reaction. Alas. I do really like my job and the people I work with.

About me - I just moved to a new city for my fiance's job last summer, we're getting married in September, I really want to adopt a dog, and I really love antiquing, cooking, and yoga. What about you?

PMeg819

I keep reading your name as Zoidberg. Carry on.

DixieNormous330

Married for 5 years, 2 year old kiddo, ancient cat, small apartment, thankless job, and I enjoy going to free expression festivals in the middle of the desert in August.

*Barbie*

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_zoberg?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:56431543-b087-4520-986c-7a7ce1e5e252Post:dca2c934-6f1e-4b13-959b-e75aa895e27d">Re: ~Zoberg~</a>:
[QUOTE]I keep reading your name as Zoidberg. Carry on.
Posted by PMeg819[/QUOTE]
me too.

FLANYTATOOGURL

In Response to Re:Zoberg: free expression festivals in the middle of the desert in August. Posted by DixieNormous330 Which really means orgies with random people in a tent in the desert. I wonder if the regs in this board would give a non judgemental pass to a newb that posted the same exact thing?

tawillers

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_zoberg?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:47Discussion:56431543-b087-4520-986c-7a7ce1e5e252Post:dca2c934-6f1e-4b13-959b-e75aa895e27d">Re: ~Zoberg~</a>:
[QUOTE]I keep reading your name as Zoidberg. Carry on.
Posted by PMeg819[/QUOTE]

Same.

Wzz

so flany, tell us who you really are. fess up. no one likes a coward.

AuntFlo

I keep reading it as Zohan.

And Wz - - you know better - DNFTT!

Wzz

i'm just tired of these people coiming here and thinking we're all stupid and we don't notice when things are off, and they have been for a while with this one. but you're right.

6fsn

I keep reading Zoberg as the fb dude.  I can't remember his name, but Zoberg is close enough. 

FLANYTATOOGURL

How am I trolling? If I posted that I go to a orgies in the desert once a year, I am positive that y'all would have nothing but negative to say about it. But because this chick is a regular it doesn't even raise an eyebrow. That is a fact.

FLANYTATOOGURL

In Response to Re:Zoberg:[QUOTE]so flany, tell us who you really are. fess up. no one likes a coward. Posted by Wzz[/QUOTE]

Why do I need to tell you my real name? I doubt your real name is Wzz.
Isnt it against the TOS to actually post your real name? I am not a coward, I call it like I see it! If you want to know my real name, PM me yours and I will PM you mine.

6fsn

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_zoberg?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:47Discussion:56431543-b087-4520-986c-7a7ce1e5e252Post:0386622c-4b7b-410f-825e-384699ff685e">Re:Zoberg</a>:
[QUOTE]How am I trolling? If I posted that I go to a orgies in the desert once a year, I am positive that y'all would have nothing but negative to say about it. But because this chick is a regular it doesn't even raise an eyebrow. That is a fact.
Posted by FLANYTATOOGURL[/QUOTE]

I actually think the fact is some people are ok with adults choosing how they want to live their life. 

harper0813

My favorite comparison here was definitely Mark Zuckerberg. Thank you for the laughs!

ETA: I really like how the conversation here went from Zoidberg to orgies.

Wzz

yeah, i was asking for you to post your real name. while you're at it, let's also have your phone number, last 10 years worth of employment records and SS number.

::eyeroll::

let's see. if you are so real, then post the link to the thread where dixie posted anything having to do with anything in the dessert. you joined in august 2012, so it should be after that date if you are new to the board, yes? she had to have talked about it here if you know about it if you're being truthful.

FLANYTATOOGURL

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_zoberg?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:47Discussion:56431543-b087-4520-986c-7a7ce1e5e252Post:39d5c669-c948-4e0f-bb2c-d53d58b9213c">Re:Zoberg</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re:Zoberg : I actually think the fact is some people are ok with adults choosing how they want to live their life. 
Posted by 6fsn[/QUOTE]



People can do whatever or whoever they want. But don't act like any time a new person posts a "woe" on this board they get called all types of names, even by people in the same situations. I got basically got told I that I gave my FI "Milk for free" because we had a baby before getting married, by a woman that isn't even married! I highly doubt that she is a virgin!

So someone can be judged in this day and age for having a baby out of wedlock, but it is out of bounds to judge someone going to a random sex meetup in the desert once a year?
How is that not a regular getting a pass?

The random part of those sex parties is very judge worthy!

NOLABridesmaid

Flany, you are still mad about that comment. I can't even remember the entire thing. You said something about your FI dragging his feet and I SAID that maybe it's because y'all live together and have a kid.

I was speaking from experience of a few women that I know. I think I also said that I DID'NTKNOW YOUR MAN, but that could be the reason.


Yes, it is coming back to me. Does it really matter what  I think? It seems to be working for you, so why be mad about a comment that a random person made.

Are you telling me that you NEVER thought that it might be the reason why he was dragging his feet? Let's be honest?

NOLABridesmaid

FTR, I didn't judge you for having a kid and not being married.

I did judge you for thinking that things might not be real comfortable for him just the way they are, and him not being motivated to hop to the marriage thing at the speed you would like.

6fsn

I love that it was a Nola comment getting her all worked up.

Also, I know that there is some free lovin' in the dessert, but I've never heard Dixie participated. 

NOLABridesmaid

Where is H when I need her to find that post?

TheMrsC23

OMG @ being butthurt for this long over some random internet person's opinion.    That was, like, 6 months ago....Maybe more.

Wzz

and who cares. it's weird and misplaced to lash out at dixie for something someone else said. it's creepy that someone sticks around to learn about the people here and then post random (mis)information about it when no one has spoken about it at all here.

get over it.

NOLABridesmaid

Flany, I really think you projected some feelings you have deep deep down into my comment.

Has someone said this to you IRL? If they have their opinion also doesn't matter. Girl, do you, but let all that go. Life is too short to get worked up about things that truly don't matter in the big picture.

Wzz

also, if you really did have your woe, maybe your just mad that your FI won't set a date. don't take it out on nola or dixie. take it up with your FI. no one here cares if you give or don't give your milk away for free.

but hey, if you have energy to stick around and update your stalker notebooks, feel free. no one could stop you, right? and i am sure you'll get in good with everyone here that way.

DixieNormous330

Seriously, it's not an orgie. And if it was it is STILL none of your business what I, as a consenting adult, do on my vacation.

Perhaps you should actually research what you're judging. It's an art festival. Yes, people have sex there. But it's an ART FESTIVAL. Perhaps if you actually looked at things like the Art Grant Program that the organization has, and some of the pieces that are stationary in cities across the country, you'd understand it.

Instead, you decide to remain an uninformed and run your mouth about things you don't or can't understand.

FLANYTATOOGURL

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_zoberg?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:47Discussion:56431543-b087-4520-986c-7a7ce1e5e252Post:c3e53683-8d83-472b-b398-68c6a571855e">Re: ~Zoberg~</a>:
[QUOTE]and who cares. it's weird and misplaced to lash out at dixie for something someone else said. it's creepy that someone sticks around to learn about the people here and then post random (mis)information about it when no one has spoken about it at all here. get over it.
Posted by Wzz[/QUOTE]



Nola, He proposed after I told him I was pregnant. Why would I believe that he was dragging his feet due to us having a child? Makes no sense. I don't even have a problem with you or what you said, I am using it as an example. The only poster's that are judge-worthy are new poster's that are just looking for advice.

Wzz, maybe I am creepy, but I pretty much lurked the knot (not just WW) for about 2+ years. And one day while I was on SB I read a C&P from here about the girl with a borderline abusive husband and how he talked her into believing that she was the one that wanted to go to a free "expression" get away called Burning man. It was C&P's buy someone that used to post here.

I never posted back then, I was a girl dreaming about getting married and didn't even have a ring on my finger. When I did decide to ask for advice, I deleted the old account and created a new one.

Also Wzz, what the f**k is your problem with me? I don't think I have ever said anything that would be considered hostile towards you, yet you constantly call me "fake" and a "coward" Let TG or Dixie or whatever her name will be next week defend herself.

Because if you read any reviews on the place she and her SO visit every August, you will see it is nothing more than a drug infested sex party, designed for free love orgies.
No body flies to another state for an orgie, if they aren't going to participate in it. So save me the bulls**t line about me not having my facts straight.

FLANYTATOOGURL

In Response to Re:Zoberg:[QUOTE]Seriously, it's not an orgie. And if it was it is STILL none of your business what I, as a consenting adult, do on my vacation. Perhaps you should actually research what you're judging. It's an art festival. Yes, people have sex there. But it's an ART FESTIVAL. Perhaps if you actually looked at things like the Art Grant Program that the organization has, and some of the pieces that are stationary in cities across the country, you'd understand it.Instead, you decide to remain an uninformed and run your mouth about things you don't or can't understand. Posted by DixieNormous330[/QUOTE]

<a href="http://www.perceptivetravel.com/issues/0109/united_states.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.perceptivetravel.com/issues/0109/united_states.html</a>

AuntFlo

Random thought from AF:  If I were going to participate in an orgy, the LAST place I would do it would be the desert.  

That is all.

GBCK

I'm still all "wuh?" that NOLA is apparently the mean person who is making people butthurt.

For cereal, if NOLA's conjecture on someone's life is causing one to have kittens, I will bet a small stack of $100 bills that that person was already knocked-up with kittens.

And that that person is choosing to bring it up again to make NOLA second guess/go ona guilt-trip/whatever.  

baconsmom

Flany, everyone's problem with you is that you just come on here to judge and slut shame. You're irritating and conventional, and we don't like you.