Is this weird? Or is it just me?

MeaganR12

I'm always looking for pictures of my venue on google. I found this one a few days ago: LINK

And I was like WTF?! 

Now I have no problem with budoir shoots, I wanted to do one but chickened out. But to do it in your wedding dress? On your wedding day? With your mom there? Isn't that....weird?

BeabullMom

Ummm...totally creepy.  I feel strange for even seeing those pictures...lol

LADY324

OMG I am sorry but that is the slutiest bride I have ever seen.  She was real Klassy in her pictures.  I love how the one pic her mom was hugging her and the bride had her a*s crack hanging out and the mom had this look on her face like I am so proud of you honey. 

I am all for boudoir but not on your wedding day and keep it between you and your FI don't let your mom watch you. 

bridetobe71412

WHAT.

THE.

F*CK.

butterflyjumper1

ummmmmmm those are really bizarre....was she naked and just holding her wedding dress awkwardly on top of herself? why in the world would you even want pictures like that?

sidenote, I stalked the whole blog entry, and your venue truly is stunning!! just don't take naked pictures with your dress.

ceglare4

There is so much wrong with those pictures.

syddy88

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[QUOTE]OMG I am sorry but that is the slutiest bride I have ever seen.  She was real Klassy in her pictures. <strong> I love how the one pic her mom was hugging her and the bride had her a*s crack hanging out and the mom had this look on her face like I am so proud of you honey.  I am all for boudoir but not on your wedding day and keep it between you and your FI don't let your mom watch you. </strong>
Posted by LADY324[/QUOTE]

<div>This exactly! </div>

lvissers

Haha, that made me laugh! That is super weird. I wonder if this girl has any idea that these private pics of her are on the venue's website. Super trashy though, not classy at all. These will definitely not be on my must have pic list.

bridetobe71412

Especially the one where the groom is behind her holding a glass of wine, she's crouching down with her mouth open and eyes closed and pulling up her dress. Looks like something very dirty is happening.
 
But yes, I agree with butterfly - your venue is breathtaking! At least that's confirmed by these photos And don't worry -- I stalk photos from my venue pretty much every week, too.

arunkumar

Based on everyone's comments, I'm not even sure I should look at it while I'm at work! I'll check it later though!!

michelle11988

Ummmm... awkward turtle.... I don't understand why these were done on the day of the wedding!

Nancy00714

Don't evenknow where to begin with those...why would you drape your wedding dress over your naked body?  Why would your mom hug you when you're half naked?  Why would you put your feet up on the vines?  Why would you lie down on the stairs and show your legs?  Why is her older mom wearing a dress so above her knees...and hello cleavage! 

Lovely venue though!  Thanks for sharing!  Now we know how NOT to pose for our wedding pics!

MeaganR12

I'm so horrified by them! I have to imagine she knows...and I was even thinking, if she let him post these on his blog, what other ones did she have taken that aren't shown? 

I also love how in the last pic she's smoking cigars with all the guys and she's the only chick. It makes me think there's going to be a gangbang or something afterwards. 

And thanks for the venue compliments! We're having our ceremony outside, I'm not sure why they chose to have their's inside. 

butterflyjumper1

I also was concerned at how much they liked to do butt grabbing pictures, naughty dancing pictures (she was totally "jersey turnpiking" on him in that one picture), etc.  Fiance and I like to be silly and dance inappropriately sometimes....but we aren't planning on having butt grabbing pictures taken on our wedding day!!

LADY324

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[QUOTE]I'm so horrified by them! I have to imagine she knows...and I was even thinking, if she let him post these on his blog, what other ones did she have taken that aren't shown?  I also love how in the last pic she's smoking cigars with all the guys and she's the only chick. <strong>It makes me think there's going to be a gangbang or something afterwards.</strong>  And thanks for the venue compliments! We're having our ceremony outside, I'm not sure why they chose to have their's inside. 
Posted by MeaganR12[/QUOTE]

Lol I wouldn't doubt it.  I am sure she knows they are up on the photographers website.  From the pics it doesn't look like she is shy.  I bet they are divorced in a year neither one of them look trustworthy.

Amanda1443994

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[QUOTE]I'm so horrified by them! I have to imagine she knows...and I was even thinking, if she let him post these on his blog, what other ones did she have taken that aren't shown?  I also love how in the last pic she's smoking cigars with all the guys and she's the only chick.<strong> It makes me think there's going to be a gangbang or something afterwards.</strong>  And thanks for the venue compliments! We're having our ceremony outside, I'm not sure why they chose to have their's inside. 
Posted by MeaganR12[/QUOTE]

hahaha I was thinking the same thing! I'd be so embarrassed by these pictures..

Amanda1443994

OH and this reminds me..One of my female coworkers got married a few months ago and when she got the professional pics back, she sent a link to everyone in our office, including our top bosses. In some of them when she's getting ready, the photographer took a picture of her thong on the ground, of her thong on her sky high heels, and then her posing in JUST her thong, etc. It was so gross and to show your male coworkers and bosses?? I was shocked to say the least.

LADY324

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[QUOTE]OH and this reminds me..One of my female coworkers got married a few months ago and when she got the professional pics back, she sent a link to everyone in our office, including our top bosses. In some of them when she's getting ready, the photographer took a picture of her thong on the ground, of her thong on her sky high heels, and then her posing in JUST her thong, etc. It was so gross and to show your male coworkers and bosses?? I was shocked to say the least.
Posted by Amanda1443994[/QUOTE]

Oh wow that is crazy I feel like that could be grounds to fire somebody.  I am sure the male boss's loved it but how tacky.

butterflyjumper1

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[QUOTE]OH and this reminds me..One of my female coworkers got married a few months ago and when she got the professional pics back, she sent a link to everyone in our office, including our top bosses. In some of them when she's getting ready, the photographer took a picture of her thong on the ground, of her thong on her sky high heels, and then her posing in JUST her thong, etc. It was so gross and to show your male coworkers and bosses?? I was shocked to say the least.
Posted by Amanda1443994[/QUOTE]

GROSS! why in the world would she allow her photographer to post pics of her in her thong?!?

I am in the minority (I think!) in that I actually am doing a boudoir session next month...BUT NO ONE IS EVER GOING TO SEE THEM BUT FIANCE!
and I mean ever! haha.

Amanda1443994

Yea I was so shocked when I saw them!

I'm doing a boudoir session too but I agree no one will see it but FI.

butterflyjumper1

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[QUOTE]Yea I was so shocked when I saw them! I'm doing a boudoir session too but I agree no one will see it but FI.
Posted by Amanda1443994[/QUOTE]

I am glad you are doing it too!! I am torn on whether to give him my "little black book" on our wedding day, our wedding night, or to take it with me and present it to him on our honeymoon....do you know what you are going to do yet??
(sorry to thread hijack Meagan!!)

bridetobe71412

Oh my lord, Amanda. That's SO embarrassing!

I will not be doing a boudoir session because I would be so incredibly awkward that it wouldn't even be remotely fun/sexy.

Melissa.hylton

I guess its just me. I dont see anything wrong with these photos. It looks like a girl who likes to have fun and be silly. Ive taken a few pictures like these myself but that doesnt make me a slut. 

Amanda1443994

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Is this weird? Or is it just me? : I am glad you are doing it too!! I am torn on whether to give him my "little black book" on our wedding day, our wedding night, or to take it with me and present it to him on our honeymoon....do you know what you are going to do yet?? (sorry to thread hijack Meagan!!)
Posted by butterflyjumper1[/QUOTE]

I haven't decide yet but I'm leaning more toward the day before the wedding. I don't really want to give it to him the day of because he will be getting ready with his GM and father and I don't want them to see. So I was thinking about doing it after the rehearsal dinner right before we say goodbye for the night. Show him something to look forward to? haha

butterflyjumper1

that's a great idea!! originally thats why I had thought maybe I would give it to him as a honeymoon gift of sorts, so none of the GMs or our fathers would see it when he was getting ready if I gave it to him the day of.....but I love the idea of the night before!

Nati05

You know, the truth is I'm not even bothered by the fact that she chose to do her boudoir shoot on her wedding day. Why she did that way I don't understand too well because I thought these pics were for the groom morning of... what's the point afterwards? But anyway I think it looks kinda cool with her dress.
 
What IS uncomfortable though is mixing sh!t up that doesn't go together. Like a billions shots of you half naked and then your mother pops up in there? Whoa whoa... let's keep things seperate here. I realllly don't like the mom hugging shot. I mean that's the same pose from her boudoir shot not a minute before! THAT'S weird.

And the leg up in the air with H in the vineyard is a little awkward. Her leg's just hanging out in the air for like 5+ shots in a row... do you usually sit that way?? I mean? Hahahaha

MeaganR12

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[QUOTE]I guess its just me. I dont see anything wrong with these photos. It looks like a girl who likes to have fun and be silly. Ive taken a few pictures like these myself but that doesnt make me a slut. 
Posted by Melissa.hylton[/QUOTE]

<div>With your mom right there? And you posted them online/let someone post them online afterwards?</div><div>
</div><div>Apparently the rest of us are prudes.</div><div>
</div><div>And Nati-that leg! WTF is that?!</div>

LADY324

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Is this weird? Or is it just me? : With your mom right there? And you posted them online/let someone post them online afterwards? Apparently the rest of us are prudes. And Nati-that leg! WTF is that?!
Posted by MeaganR12[/QUOTE]

I agree those pictures should have been kept personal not displayed on the photographers blog which I am sure she needed to give her approval on.  There is a time and place for certain things. 

Did she really need to lay down on the middle of the steps lifting her legs up in the air.  It's your wedding day not a playboy photoshoot.  I am sure grandpa loved seeing these poses. 

Nati05

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Is this weird? Or is it just me? : With your mom right there? And you posted them online/let someone post them online afterwards? Apparently the rest of us are prudes. And Nati-that leg! WTF is that?!
Posted by MeaganR12[/QUOTE]

Hahaha! The first thing that came to mind were all those Angelina Jolie jokes LOL

molly&dale

Very weird. And uncomfortable looking.

TChiumi

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[QUOTE]<strong>WHAT. THE. F*CK.</strong>
Posted by bridetobe71412[/QUOTE]

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</div><div>My sediments exactly!  These types of pictures are not appropriate for a wedding. </div>