Short and tall...

xoxojecaxoxo

I'm 4'11 and he is 6'3... And tip on how to even it out a bit without risking falling on my face in too high heels?

TheDuckis

step stool?

Butter Cookie

In what sense?

Pictures?

Stand closer to the camera.

AuntFlo

Cut him off at the knees?

hmonkey

is there a ditch he can stand in?

HookaPants

Why are you worried about making it even? You're short and he's tall every other day of the week, right?

Mrs.Thistletwat

Have him kneel? Only take photos on stairs? Go to China and get leg extensions?

loveshine1

You are the exact heights of my in-laws. They've been married almost 32 years. You'll figure it out.

LnR70707

um....you don't?  Why would you want to appear to be something you are not on your wedding day?

*Barbie*

 try missionary or doggie style, everything will match up better. 

jojobrn

Ha @ Barbie!

baconsmom

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[QUOTE] try missionary or doggie style, everything will match up better. 
Posted by *Barbie*[/QUOTE]

<div>My mind immediately went here, too. </div><div>
</div><div>She can also be on top - they just probably won't be able to kiss, but kissing's overrated during sex if you ask me. </div>

*Barbie*

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Short and tall... : My mind immediately went here, too.  She can also be on top - they just probably won't be able to kiss, but kissing's overrated during sex if you ask me. 
Posted by baconsmom[/QUOTE] <div>
</div><div>he could sit in a chain and she could straddle him</div><div>

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xoxojecaxoxo

Ok....Well, we have the sex part down. No advice needed in that area.

I was thinking more about the dancing and photos. I like the step stool idea for photos, because my MOH is about 5'8 and one of my BMs is pretty tall also. I'm not trying to be something I'm not... I just don't want it to be the first thing people notice when they look at the pictures. I'm not worried about the ceromony, but I would like to be able to wrap my arms behind his neck when we dance...

jojobrn

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[QUOTE]Ok....Well, we have the sex part down. No advice needed in that area. I was thinking more about the dancing and photos. I like the step stool idea for photos, because my MOH is about 5'8 and one of my BMs is pretty tall also. I'm not trying to be something I'm not... I just don't want it to be the first thing people notice when they look at the pictures. I'm not worried about the ceromony, but I would like to be able to wrap my arms behind his neck when we dance...
Posted by xoxojecaxoxo[/QUOTE]

I ams sure people already notice, it's a significant height difference. Hell I would have liked to rest my head on my husband's shoulder while we danced, but I am an inch taller, would have had a crick in my neck the rest of the night.
 If you aren't trying to be something you aren't, why are you trying to make your wedding photos something they aren't meant to be?

xoxojecaxoxo

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Short and tall... : I ams sure people already notice, it's a significant height difference. Hell I would have liked to rest my head on my husband's shoulder while we danced, but I am an inch taller, would have had a crick in my neck the rest of the night.  If you aren't trying to be something you aren't, why are you trying to make your wedding photos something they aren't meant to be?
Posted by jojobrn[/QUOTE]

Meant to be? Who's to say what they are "meant to be"? That's like saying, "Why wear makeup?" It's not how you actually look.... Same complex.

jojobrn

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Short and tall... : Meant to be? Who's to say what they are "meant to be"? That's like saying, "Why wear makeup?" It's not how you actually look.... Same complex.
Posted by xoxojecaxoxo[/QUOTE]

Standing on a stool for pictures or dancing isn't quite the same as wearing make up. Wearing makeup because we like it and how it makes us look is one thing. Trying to make yourself not seem short next to your very tall husband is completely another.